Private · Confidential · Neutral

Navigate divorce with clarity, dignity, and discretion.

We specialize in complex divorces for business owners, entrepreneurs, and high-net-worth professionals in healthcare and technology — protecting what matters most while preserving what can still be preserved.

Evening & weekend appointments available · Online nationwide

Private mediation consultation
Based in Bellevue, Washington
Online Nationwide
Our Services

Comprehensive support for every dimension of your transition.

We provide a nuanced framework for multi-ethnic, multi-religious, and multi-cultural couples, treating their unique backgrounds not as obstacles, but as essential inputs to a tailored and respectful divorce process.

01 Divorce Planning

Navigate each step with clear guidance. We help you approach complex financial and personal decisions systematically, so both partners can move forward with respect and dignity intact.

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02 Divorce Mediation

Facilitated, neutral discussions that foster informed decision-making. Resolve financial, property, and parenting issues thoughtfully — without excessive legal expense or adversarial conflict.

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03 Divorce Coaching

One-on-one support to help you manage the emotional and practical dimensions of change — staying focused on what matters most during one of life's most challenging transitions.

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04 Asset Division

Comprehensive guidance on spousal support, child support, and the fair division of property, finances, investments, and complex business interests.

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05 Parenting Plans

Customized, comprehensive plans that address all key aspects of your children's lives — custody schedules, education, healthcare, and long-term well-being.

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06 Settlement Drafting

Once agreement is reached, we handle the drafting of your final settlement — court-ready, clearly written, and built to last beyond this moment.

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Why Crossroads Neutral

The private alternative to adversarial divorce.

"At its core, mediation isn't about winning, losing, or seeking punishment. It is a collaborative process designed to find a workable path forward for everyone involved."

— Crossroads Neutral Philosophy
  • Substantially lower cost than traditional litigation
  • Faster resolution — weeks, not years
  • Better long-term outcomes for children
  • Complete financial clarity and transparency
  • Clear boundaries and structure post-divorce
  • Focused on your future, not assigning blame
  • You retain control of all decisions
  • Strictly confidential
  • Available with or without separate legal counsel
Settlement discussion

Final Paperwork, Handled With Care.

We assist with organizing and completing all divorce paperwork for court filing, and offer referrals to experienced attorneys when your situation requires legal representation.

Our Process

Three steps to a clear resolution.

Online, structured, transparent, and centered on mutual understanding. Our process is designed to reduce friction and move you forward.

01
Initial Consultation

We begin by understanding your unique situation — your assets, your family structure, your priorities. We explain the full range of mediation options available and answer every question with candor and care.

02
Guided Mediation Sessions

Neutral, professionally facilitated discussions covering finances, parenting, property division, and future planning. Conducted with complete confidentiality, online or in person, at a pace that works for both parties.

03
Clear, Durable Agreements

We draft practical, legally-sound agreements that reflect what you have built together and provide a clear foundation for what comes next. All documents can be reviewed by your attorneys or submitted directly to the court.

Mediation process
Joti Basi — Lead Mediator & Founder, Crossroads Neutral
Joti Basi
Lead Mediator & Founder
Certificate in Divorce Mediation
Certificate in Collaborative Law
B.S. Seattle University  ·  MBA University of Washington
20+ Years in the Software Industry
About

Experience forged across business, law and life.

Joti Basi founded Crossroads Neutral after more than two decades in the software industry, bringing a rare combination of business acumen, cultural sensitivity, and formal mediation training to every engagement. He understands the complexity of high-asset divorces — the business valuations, equity compensation, and private holdings — because he has lived and worked in those worlds.

Born in India and raised there until his teens, Joti immigrated to the United States and built his education and career here — giving him a genuine foot in both worlds. Whether you were born in America or grew up in South Asia, he understands the cultural expectations, family dynamics, and quiet pressures that shape these decisions, so you never have to explain where you are coming from.

His practice is grounded in the belief that a well-structured mediation can protect children, preserve wealth, and close one chapter with enough dignity to begin the next.

Contact

Begin with a private conversation.

All inquiries are held in the strictest confidence. There is no obligation, and no pressure. Tell us about your situation and we will respond within one business day.

Location
Bellevue, Washington
Service Area
Online Nationwide
Availability
By Appointment

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